There is that special moment when two people click, rather than simply meet. Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman, Crown Business, $ (p). The following summary of Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman’s book ‘Click – The magic of instant connections’ is courtesy of Paul Arnold. The Book: Click: The Magic of Instant Connections by Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman, Broadway Books, $ Hardcover, Pages, June.

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But their fortunes were reversed by a random act of student accommodation. I got to work with professionals. In fact, on Short book on how people make connections with each other. People who connect better tend to be more successful, have more friends and work in teams that are more productive. At the end of term the students were shown pictures of the four women.

Summary of Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman’s book ‘Click – The magic of instant connections’

The same thing happened when people were told that they had similar fingerprint pattern, which again, why should brxfman fingerprint pattern, just because you and I have similar patterns on our fingerprints, why should that make me more likely to give you money and to help you out in editing? Plus, the authors show how the four stars of the University of Florida Gators national champion basketball team clicked early on in their college careers and were better as a group in oi than they were after they split up and became pros.

From the beginning, Paul was brafmaan aware of the new team member, Nadia. It was clear to her from the beginning that there was something between them. Physical proximity, not in terms of touching, but literally just seeing someone more than others, and the opportunities to talk create the chance for connections.

clicl From actors vying for a role on a popular TV series to police officers negotiating with hostage takers, we learn how one can foster an environment where we can click with another person and shape our thinking, behavior, and emotions. I mean, what does anybody who’s in there know about Plato and the Greeks, or care about them?


How To Click With People

Dec 31, John rated it it was amazing. Bbrafman can still read it on that little screen Interviewee: Nov 11, Harrison Entwistle rated it it was ok.

One would never suspect that the two were ostensibly meeting for work. The meeting several days ago was different, though.

She cooked him foods from his childhood — Chicken soup, Kugel and Strudel. So, if you told me that we went clikc the same college or something like that, if you take that, it only takes about seven or eight similarities for people to start viewing each other again as better human beings, as smatter, as more moral, more like us.

The book observes these factors that increase chance of “clicking”: Obviously, the formula works and I do not object to using it per se, but brafkan lack of depth and novelty in this one is quite disappointing. It was the old school type of, just like a motel. Hardcoverpages.

So in a competition with someone you know, see if you can know if bring in a tiny bit of vulnerability you can ask them a question about things a bit more and see if you are able to be in that place again without giving advice, without trying to solve it for them or back off from them and see what happens. Now, why is resonance important?

I had hoped this book would be more about how to be more magnetic and click more easily with people. Their natural social familiance.

Refresh and try again. It seemed like a book bgafman was aware of it lack of substance, as if its main goal was to be inspirational, and enjoyable, so as to foster positive feedback in sheeple.

Like most of us, when clcik met a new person, they usually spent their first moments searching for something to talk about.


The authors collect anecdotes about meaningful and successful and profitable relationships, and they dissect Click was written in the same vein as Malcolm Gladwell’s Blink and Outliers.

From two co-workers who fall head over heels for each other while out to dinner and are married a month later and fifteen years later remain just as in loveto a team of scientists who changed the world with the magic of their invention, these kinds of peak experiences, when our senses are completely focused on the moment, are something that individuals—and companies—strive to achieve.

Click – The magic of instant connections

Whether it is with a total stranger, or a coworker as we work on a project, or a loved one, that sensation of connecting is almost magical. However, it only talked about how or why people click.

Let us know who you think would make a great interviewee. I agree with the previous reviewer that the book is one of many that are churned out based on trusted Gladwell’s formula: In short, a really good book if you want to understand different people, what brings people together, the ingredients of a good relationship and probably also understanding yourself better.

‘Click’: That Magical Instant Connection Explained : NPR

Aug 23, David Chung rated it liked it. Yeah we found out that both of our mothers, we had happy parents and both our mothers mad home made vanilla and the rest is history. There is elements that you can take, there are specific strategies, specific factors that you can help control the click for actually happening so one is that you brafmaj an environment where people could share their vulnerability or that in an authentic way you are able to expose yourself and that just builds trust.

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